Call me crazy

It’s not just me

As far as I know myself & many other women are considered “bitchy” or “demanding” & many other words, I am sure the list goes on & on; however we really are NONE of these things unless it’s brought on. Don’t poke the bear if you don’t want it to attack. Seriously, that is great advice. I doubt any men read my blog but if they do please take that advice and burn it into your brain. We women are the bears do not poke us we do not like it we will attack & you will NOT like it. I promise.

Easily avoided

I as well as many others would not get pissy or bitchy about things had they been done right the first time. I would not get pissy or bitchy had you listened when I said “I don’t like when you......” Or “It bothers me when....” Apparently for some... scratch that, ALL men; this is a hard concept to grasp. I do not understand why life would be much, much easier if this was just taken & understood.

Why do I bring this up?

Let me use one of the small things that bug me. Now again, call me crazy, I feel like when I ask someone, especially that one & only how they are doing the question should be returned. I don’t care if you want to know or not plain & simple it’s just polite, makes me feel like you care. If I really wanted to be a bitch I could get upset that he doesn’t just ask out of the blue, but I think that might be asking too much.  I just  feel like not only is it the polite thing to do but it makes me feel as if he thinks about me, like wonders how I’m doing (I am only 7months pregnant) & would care to find out. Forgive me if this is something silly to be upset over but hey, I am all about the “little things”.

I know this won’t change

I get it. Stereotypically men don’t get it & women will always hate it & always be the “bad guy” for pointing it out. Why things are this way I will NEVER understand, I just wish they were a little easier to handle at times.  I love my partner to pieces & as much as I used to think “he’s not like all men” & he isn’t in a lot of ways, but he is. I guess I just have to learn to deal with it? I am sure there is a way I could potentially approach my concerns & feelings where he might actually understand it from my point of view, however at this point & time I am lost as to how to deal with this. I could just be hopeful but I think things can change & that there can be a middle ground where feelings are expressed without fighting & misunderstanding one another, I just wish it would happen now before baby.

I’m done I promise

Now that I have had a good cry & vented a little, I think it is time to sleep. Here’s to hoping tomorrow is a better day!

Cheers